When a Fetish is more than a Fetish (thanks @CourtneyCummz )

Several months ago, I was skype-ing with one of my favorite porn stars,  Courtney Cummz (@CourtneyCummz on Twitter).
She is lovely about wearing outfits and humoring those of us with particular fetishes.  After a few skype dates, knowing I have an affinity for all things nylon; she mentioned a term that, at first, somewhat startled me.  As we were discussing my thing for pantyhose, she simple said, “You know what, I don’t think you have a pantyhose fetish; you have pantyhose worship.”

In all honesty, the first thing that came to mind was “OH HELL NO” as I am soooo not in to the sub/dom thing.  But she went on to explain that it had nothing to do with being a submissive or not.   But that it was more of what women in pantyhose does to me.  Basically, the more I thought about it, the more I now think she was spot on.  Not that she was getting all Fruedian on me, but she said it seemed way more than just me enjoying them as a visual then wanting to rip them off and go to town.  She could tell I’d typically like to incorporate them into any sexual encounter as much as possible. I couldn’t disagree as I very much do exactly that.  Taking a step back; I really had to agree with the term Worship. Women impeccably dressed in hose, heels and skirts definitely turn me on more than any other type of dressing style. And it does bring out a visceral urge to want to please that woman in any way possible. Whether it be a massage (footrub, legrub or full body), oral for as long as she wants or just down to tons upon tons of verbal compliments of her attire; I would do just about anything for a woman in pantyhose.

So that could be a question for other pantyhose enthusiasts. Is it a simple fetish or do you have a serious case of Pantyhose Worship? Do you have a “thing” at all. Call it a Fetish or call it whatever. What makes you tick? What makes your boyfriend or girlfriend, wife or husband tick? You don’t know? You really should know yourself or your partner well enough. If he/she doesn’t have anything that just really gets them going…I’m sorry. For goodness sake, try and find out. Especially if your in an LTR and are stuck in a sex rut. It might be a blast trying to figure it out. Explore what is out there for you. Surprise your lover with trying something new. I’m not saying it has to be stockings or nylons. Just go figure out what it is.

Incidentally, the pic is from a Courtney personalized video. She is a blast to chat with. And pretty much super hot!! She can also be found here: http://www.courtneycummz.com